wear the pants
握有權(quán)力、控制整個局面、做重大決策
口語·形容關(guān)系中的主導(dǎo)者
英文釋義
to be in control or have dominance in a relationship or situation
例句
In their marriage, she definitely wears the pants.
典故來源
源于19世紀，褲子象征男性權(quán)威，女性穿褲子則代表掌握家庭主導(dǎo)權(quán)。