wear the trousers
掌握權力、決策或控制權;在家庭或關系中擁有支配地位
口語·形容家庭或關系中的支配者
英文釋義
to be the one who makes the decisions or holds the power in a relationship or situation
例句
He may seem tough, but his wife wears the trousers at home.
典故來源
與'wear the pants'同義,英國英語常用,褲子象征權力和決策地位。