Being a good listener means much more than just listening with ears. Eyes mean that I should look at you while you are speaking as a sign of respect. In other words I should not watch TV, or look over your shoulder at other people while we are talking
作一名好的傾聽(tīng)者,決不只是“用耳朵聽(tīng)”。“目”字的意思是,你說(shuō)話時(shí)我應(yīng)當(dāng)看著你,這是尊重對(duì)方的表現(xiàn)。換句話說(shuō),當(dāng)我們?cè)谝黄鹫勗挄r(shí),我不應(yīng)當(dāng)看電視,也不應(yīng)當(dāng)越過(guò)你的肩膀瞅著別人。