the places, the people--mostly the people.

美國的一些地方， 人民， 大部分的人。

There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.

事情本無好與壞，全在自己怎么想。

Being a good listener means much more than just listening with ears. Eyes mean that I should look at you while you are speaking as a sign of respect. In other words I should not watch TV, or look over your shoulder at other people while we are talking

作一名好的傾聽者，決不只是“用耳朵聽”?！澳俊弊值囊馑际?，你說話時(shí)我應(yīng)當(dāng)看著你，這是尊重對(duì)方的表現(xiàn)。換句話說，當(dāng)我們?cè)谝黄鹫勗挄r(shí)，我不應(yīng)當(dāng)看電視，也不應(yīng)當(dāng)越過你的肩膀瞅著別人。