And how old are you?

你幾歲了？

Observation is the best teacher.

觀察為良師。

Second, if your friends have problems, do not give advice. Ask questions instead, such as What do yo want? How do you feel about it? What are you afraid might happen? They will be able to find answers to any problems themselves, with your support. They

“你需要什么？你對此感覺怎樣？你擔心會出什么事情？”在你的支持幫助下，無論什么問題他們自己都會找到解決的辦法的。他們需要的只是鼓勵和信任，相信他們在盡力而為。